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 Posted: Sun Jun 30th, 2019 01:24 am
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My husband of 20 years and I are out. It does not define us. We don't wear it on our sleeve and you'd never know we were gay unless you knew us awhile. We don't fit stereotypes. We're like Pete Buttigieg gay. Plenty of people in town know us and have been to our home at parties.....where we were the only gay people there. Our names or where we live is not important. We're not "militant" gays....and we don't know anybody who is.

I recall one time we were at Soggy Peso when a guy quietly asked us if we were gay, and apparently too loudly we said we were. He warned us that there were many in the area who wouldn't like that and if his employer found out he would be fired.

So let's not kid ourselves that there are not people in San Carlos or anywhere else for that matter who are prejudiced against gays, blacks, Mexicans, whites, etc. Some of that prejudice has been on display in this thread and the one on the other board. Self-serving posts about knowing gay people is tantamount to "my best friend is black". My preference to remain anonymous on this board has nothing to do with being out.

Why this is a sticking point for you is a far more interesting subject, as is the irrational fear of a hypothetical situation of someone sticking their junk in another guy's face and waving it around.

BTW, I've been in straight clubs and had women after me who have pulled down their tops and waved their tatas in my face.  I laughed and took it as the compliment it was meant to be.

So.....your turn.....what were you after when you initially posted, "So, who is trueblue?, and just realize there are just some things you can't out run." BTW, "out run" is one word. Why is it important to you to know who I am? In your opinion, what am I trying to outrun?

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Thank you Trueblue, once again, for your candor. In post #5 I found it interesting that the poster stated something about you being the first to bring attention to transition at Froggy's. I had no idea there was an inference in that post. So I asked who is Trueblue? Not to out, thought you might be an owner, or someone I knew. My statement about "outrunning" was about waves, progress and social change. One cannot outrun it.

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Please tell me where the straight bar is where women pull their tops down and wave their ta ta,s. Maybe we could get one of those in San Carlos. 

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will rogers wrote: Please tell me where the straight bar is where women pull their tops down and wave their ta ta,s. Maybe we could get one of those in San Carlos. 

In a retirement community?


Be careful what you wish for..............

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Ahhhhh, Where is Horse Black when I need it, my heart Opined.

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Hey, maybe some of you guys will finally get some attention.

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TrueBlue wrote: So IronMan makes a quasi-homophobic joke and johnmoore wants to out me, both implying something is wrong with being gay. Correct me if I am interpreting this wrongly.I made a joke. Those that know me, would say it is normal for me. I never used the words "homo" or "gay". You are the one who also used "phobic". I am not afraid of you, or anything you do. I have never begun my posts with straight white male. If I wanted anything, it would be to stop flaunting gay to describe anything other than sex between two animals of the same sex, although you will seldom see that in other than homo sapiens.

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My friend and I went last night for karaoke and had a great time! We arrived at 8:45 and were the only patrons until about 10:15. So, lots of karaoke for us! The place is really nice inside and the staff is as great as always. By the time we left around midnight, they had a great crowd. As far as I could see (couldn't see everyone outside) we were the only gringos there. The manager was very happy to see us and said he was concerned about the lack of people. But, it definitely picked up later as the Mexican crowd came in. I don't know if the gringos will come back, but if they don't, they will be missing out on a great place. For my part, I'll hang with the Mexican crowd any day.

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Was this the opening night, Pony?


Were the Karaoke tunes Spanish, English or a mix? What music genres did you hear?

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I am Proud to be a Heterosexual...After all, where would the Human Race be without Us???

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It wasn't opening night, but it was the first night for karaoke since they changed format. You pick the song you want to sing, they have everything through the internet. I sing in both English and Spanish.

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